Debunking Family Discipleship Myths

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In the hustle and bustle of family life, fostering a spiritual connection with your children can sometimes seem like an overwhelming task. But don’t let these common family discipleship myths hold you back from nurturing faith in your household. Let’s unravel these misconceptions one by one:

1. It has to happen at the dinner table.

While the dinner table can be a fantastic setting for family discipleship, it’s not the only option. Our experiences show that discipleship can thrive in the nooks and crannies of your daily routine – whether it’s reading Bible stories, discussing eternal themes while coloring, or playing a faith based game. If the dinner table doesn’t work for your family, find what does. The key is not to abandon discipleship altogether, but to adapt to your unique circumstances.

2. Your kids are too little.

Teaching your children about your faith can start from day one. Just as you introduce them to your favorite sports teams or outdoor activities, you can also introduce them to your love for God and His Word. It’s not about forcing faith but sharing your passion and hope that they embrace it too.

3. You need to know more of the Bible first.

Remember that no one ever has all the answers. You don’t need to be a Bible expert to lead your family in discipleship. The disciples chosen by Jesus weren’t theologians either. God entrusted you with your children for a reason; you have what it takes to share the gospel with them.

4. Your life is too busy for it.

Even if your schedule is packed, you can incorporate family discipleship into your daily routine without sacrificing time elsewhere. Stack spiritual practices with everyday activities like praying before bedtime, reading the Bible to your kids while they play, memorizing verses while brushing teeth, or listening to worship music during car rides. (Seriously, utilize those car rides!) Family discipleship doesn’t have to be time-consuming; it can be seamlessly integrated into your busy life.

5. It’s just a way to get your kids to behave well.

Family discipleship is not a behavior management tool. While you might hope your children grow in areas like anger, obedience, and respect, it should stem from a genuine understanding of God’s love, not fear of consequences or rewards.

6. It is supposed to be led by your husband.

Family discipleship should be a shared responsibility, not limited to one gender. Both parents have a unique role in guiding their children’s faith journey.

7. You need a devotional or study.

Devotionals, books, and other resources are valuable, but the most important tool for family discipleship is your Bible. It’s a timeless source of wisdom and guidance.

8. It requires a lot of time.

You don’t need hours for family discipleship. Even 3-5 minutes of listening to worship songs in the car or practicing Bible verses during daily routines can make a significant impact.

Family discipleship is a flexible and adaptable journey that can fit into the reality of your life. Don’t let these myths hold you back from sharing your faith and values with your children. Start today, wherever you are, and watch your family’s spiritual journey flourish.

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